Behn Mcilwaine Not Such A Sweet Dude. This dad, guitarist, computer programmer is not the “all around sweet dude” he claims to be. He will use the same lines on you as he did with ever other women he’s met. He’ll catch you off guard with the sweet guy persona, he says he doesn’t date much, and is nervous meeting new girls. It’s a play. He’s number one game is to take you for a walk on the beach and smoke a joint with you. Run. The lay is ok, but not worth it since he won’t wrap his junk, and likely already has or has a date to stick it in your friend. If your lucky he’ll date your for a few years and get a side piece for fun have you watch his kid while he’s fuking the other woman and then blame you both when you meet and figure him out. More then a narcissist, this drug addict, broke a55 fuk, “over all sweet dude” is living if of his mamas money only has his dirty d1ck in mine when he’s talking to you.